Little-queen

男人男人女人女人

2011-10-28T22:57:00.003+08:00

女人嘛，最重要的是，就是多關心她一點。
男：我要怎麼關心啊？那工作來說吧，她每次做的不開心，我都跟她說你別幹了！
女：他要是真的與關心我，那就應該聽我訴苦，對吧？不能總是搪塞我“你別幹了！別幹了！”。

男人工作壓力大，看球賽。
男：我們男人，工作壓力大不大？那每次有壓力的時候，我們看看球賽，紓解一下，怎麼啦？
女：那兩隻眼睛就只知道盯著球賽。

女人對男人工作煩惱的意見與分析。
女：他工作不順心的時候，我多關心他啊。我整晚給他分析，給他出主意。
男：我最受不了的是什麽呢？我最受不了的就是，她老是拿自己的意見來指揮我。我覺得她根本不信任我的能力。

男人最要命的就是，得到了就不珍惜。
女：一開始就假裝把你捧在手心裡。得到了，就開始敷衍你，把你說的毫無價值，可有可無。

男人最重要的是什麽？
面子。
女人最要命的是什麽？
就是老是想要改變男人。
男：面子等於我們的尊嚴對不對

女人，不會主動要求，那一點都不浪漫。
所以啊，女人就喜歡用一些暗示，比喻，聽起來，曖昧不清，卻又似是而非的話來提示你。

女人，有時候真的不需要太精明。
偶爾裝傻一下，那會更可愛。

夏日樂悠悠 ♥

2011-10-28T22:53:00.003+08:00

從前有個漁夫

愛上了一個女孩

但女孩總是把心藏在海底

漁夫怎麼樣都打撈不到

只好把自己變成一位廚師

他試著把女孩的心做成一道甜點

好讓他品嘗的時候感覺到女孩的存在 ♥

Finally.. I got the email notification!

2011-01-06T10:52:00.006+08:00

From: 강민석 Subject: Hi Seoul Message:

Congratulations on winning a prize from Seoul city. Thank you for participating in the Seoul's Four Charms quiz event on our website. We have received a lot of inquiries about the winners of the prizes. Prize winners from the event will receive an email from us this Friday regarding prize winners' information. We apologize for the delay in the notification as the preparation of the prizes took some time. "Bla bla bla........" Thank you.

Finally! I got the email notification above regards I'm one of the winner for one of the prizes from Seoul city :P The email was received under Junk/Spam folder, and luckily I check my Junk/Spam folder this time carefully, reading every single email inside and I found this email :P Hehehe.. I was so worry that I didn't able to claim my digital camera prize as they stated that "The winners will be notified by emails, please send your email reply not later than 9 Jan 2011, and if we don't receive your reply, your prize will be automatically cancelled". And now, finally at least I got one email notification from them, it means my digital camera prize is secured :P Thanks god! And thanks to the friends who helped for the solution, especially Valencia Girlie from Philippines, Lee Hyunjun from Korea, Rubio Ivette and Burlo Monica ;) And not to forget Valencia Girlie who dropped me an email and Farhana Nurul who dropped me a message/comment at my blog, without you guys' email/message/comment, I wouldn't know I won until today :P Thanks again everyone! Cheers!

I won the Digital Camera!!

2011-01-05T12:41:00.004+08:00

ivixrain (Spain) aisuju (Philippines) girlielvalencia (Philippines) hiromi218 (Japan) jojo1820 (China) kweeyoon (Malaysia) mindy (The United States) nurul_farhanarosli (Malaysia) oraizumi (Japan) starbelinda (China) yoshi12_yama (Japan) Quoted from http://english.seoul.go.kr/lh/community/event_list.php But... but.. but.. I didn't get any 3 of the emails notification as mentioned above? Or were the 3 emails notification in the Junk/Spam folder and I deleted them off? How am I suppose to claim my digital camera? Oh god... Please help!! I want my new digital camera!! Please......

冬至快乐！

2010-12-21T19:21:00.001+08:00

今天是冬至前夕呢！好想吃汤圆！热乎乎的汤圆！芝麻汤圆！豆沙汤圆！花生汤圆！预祝大家冬至快乐！冬至之后是圣诞！呵呵！也预祝大家圣诞快乐！

My Birthday cum Pre-Christmas Bash!

2010-12-15T09:54:00.007+08:00

I have a wonderful and surprise Birthday Bash on 05 December 2010, 12am sharp at Station One with my loved one and few great friends! Six different flavours of cupcakes from Cupcake Chic! These cupcakes are so cute and they are being dressing up with “Happy Birthday” candles, and one of the cupcakes spelt out "Q" my initial on it :P Thanks dear, thanks Loon, thanks Stanley, thanks Nickky, thanks Joodie, thanks Yip and thanks Ice ; Thanks, thanks and thanks! Love you guys always!! This picture special dedicate to the sweetest couple - Yip and Ice who just get registered their marriage on 10.10.10! My heart filled wishes on the marriage of both of you, hoping the best for you two today and forever, happy married life! Always remember "Two hands to hold, two legs to walk, two eyes to see, two ears to listen, but why only one heart?" May you love and hold each other in the worst of times with trust, faith and belief! Happy married life!! My little Birthday cum Pre-Christmas cake from JJCM :) It's me with my little Birthday cum Pre-Christmas cake :PThanks Jessey, thanks Tommy, thanks Belle, and thanks Weng for the Birthday cum Pre-Christmas Bash!! You guys are awesome ;) JJCM rock! Love you guys always! Muackssssssssss!! XOXO!! Oppss!! A second please! Where's Jessey's pretty face? Lol! Jessey: "Don't blame me for not putting any picture of you and me here, the pictures are with you lah, when will you finish filter and share with me as well as others?" :P

A handsome Photographer of Mine!

2010-12-15T00:41:00.006+08:00

Who's the guy behind the DSLR? He a handsome photographer of mine :P Lol! Do check out him out at elvin.lee.photography ;)

I'm one year older now :P

2010-12-14T23:48:00.005+08:00

I'm know I'm one year older now! It's hard for me to believe that another year has come and gone, and I’m another year older. And, it's now middle of December, I know it exactly nine days late for me to post something here for my birthday :P First at all I would like to thank you, my Dear! Thank you for everything you gave me, thank you for cheering me up and trying to be there whenever I needed someone, thank, thank and thank. And, thank for being the first one who posted a very sweet birthday wishes wall post on my facebook wall :P Thank, thank and thank! It's not overkill to say thank again, right? So say it again, thank you Dear!! Love you always! Muacksss!! And, secondly I would like to thanks everyone who've wished me a very Happy Birthday regardless personally, text, call or facebook wall posts :P Thank you guys!! Guess what? I got over 100 birthday wishes wall posts by you guys! You guys are really awesome!! Thank you guys!!Thank guys! Thank a lots for the Happy Birthdays on my facebook wall ;) Really appreciate all your wishes. Hugs and kisses! XOXO! Thank, thank and thank! Thank and thank again! Thank! Thank! Thank! :P May each and every passing year bring us wisdom, peace, health and cheers ;)

Hi Seoul 4 Charms Quiz Event

2010-12-10T20:59:00.003+08:00

I'm trying my luck again via Hi Seoul 4 Charms Quiz Event to see whether I got chances to win the round trip flight ticket to Seoul City for two by attempting four of the quizzes there :P What're you waiting guys? You guys should try on your luck too, check it out at http://english.seoul.go.kr/lh/community/event_list.php! Good luck guys! XOXO! Wish me luck too! I'm hope I can "Eat . Play . Love . See . Sleep" in Korea once again with my loved one! It's fun!!

Anyonghee-gasego Korea!

2010-11-20T18:50:00.002+08:00

Finally ended my 9 Days Eat . Play . Love . See . Sleep in Korea! There're so much to eat, so much to play, so much to see and so much to buy, but so little time and so little money to spend :P And now I'm back to Malaysia my home country once again, back to reality = Work . Sleep . Save again for coming trips ;) Anyonghee-gasego Korea! I will be back again one day!

Finally.. Belle graduated ;)

2010-10-27T11:50:00.004+08:00

Hip, Hip, Hooray! Belle! You did it! Congratulations! We're so proud of you! Do continue dream big, reach far and shine brightly! Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you'll be among the stars. You're a star in our eyes! Congratulations to new graduate Belle!

射手座的我！

2010-10-25T10:27:00.003+08:00

射手座(Sagittarius)的我 - 终极完美分析!~ 很准！乐观与忧愁：射手座人的内心不是外表看上去那么乐观的，因为喜欢看的远，容易担忧的事情也就多，在他们的字典里，即使现在好，也不一定代表未来好，有时候很多人觉得很好的一个工作或一个伴侣，他们很轻易的就会放弃掉，可能只是因为一个毫不起眼的小原因。所以，这样的外在表现，就让人们觉得他们不喜欢被某件事情或某个人束缚住，追求自由的，没有压力的感觉。现实：常说射手座是追求梦想的人，但往往忽略了他们现实的一面，算计起来不会比处女座差哦，只是更高明更隐藏罢了。射手座人的梦想是必须建立在现实的基础上的，一般他们很少谈及自己的梦想，而是实际的去做一些向梦想靠拢的事情。如果可以借巧力完成的事情，决不会多花一点工夫。所以有时候射手座也容易给人耍小聪明的感觉。可是，不得不承认他们完成的还满不错。也许终其一生，他们都在考虑怎么巧妙的做一些事情，花最少的精力去达到最好的效果。所以，很多射手座看上去让人们会觉得很懒，但是其实他们的大脑可没有停下过思考现实的事情。拒绝低俗：几乎所有的射手座内心都是骄傲的，其程度绝不亚于狮子座。只不过他们不会显现在脸上，外在的表现总是随和的，恰当的。可是内在有着极强的自尊心，敏感也情绪化。因为射手座人心中是骄傲的，所以他们拒绝低俗，不喜欢任何俗气的、粗鲁的事或人。如果可以，他们希望一切有关的事物，都是优雅的、高尚的，值得品味的。而真正能让他们觉得值得交朋友或谈恋爱的人是很少的，虽然表面上他们是很随和的。多情：很多人说射手座多情，尤其是男性。其实在射手座人的心目中，对于爱情确实有理想化的倾向，和他们谈恋爱，是一件高难度的事情。他们非常讨厌俗气的人，所以你不能很物质或喜欢谈钱，但是他们又很现实，所以你不能一文不名，各方面也必须有一定的实力。物质与精神，你必须平衡的刚刚好，才让他们觉得你值得去爱。或者，你有足够的神秘感，可以让他们不知道你的缺点在哪里，而盲目的爱你。一般，当然是没有完美无缺的人的，所以，可能象金牛座这样永远会让射手感觉捉摸不透的闷闷的人，会非常吸引他们；或者象双子那样，足够机智，懂得察言观色，捕捉他们的情绪，才会让他们感觉到爱情的甜蜜。一般射手的感情模式是，第一阶段，你们还不熟悉，他（她）爱上了你，非常热情。第二阶段，你们逐渐熟悉，而他（她）开始龟毛，整天挑剔你的毛病，无论是背地里还是当面。如果你有幸通过他（她）的挑剔过程，基本挑剔出的毛病为零或者你把缺点保密的非常好；那么进入第三阶段，他们就又是忠诚和热情的爱人了。但是基本能通过第二阶段的人非常少，所以有了射手多情一说。其实射手对恋人的挑剔，是源于对爱情的挑剔，对丧失自由感的恐惧。射手座人的人生，往往是幸运的，因为他们是聪慧的、明朗的、通透的。与众不同，也许是他们终生追求的梦想，希望每一个射手人，可以找到他们的梦想！　　人人都说射手座是感情的骗子，对爱情不尊重，只追求片刻的快感，是花心与冲满欲望的象征。朋友们…你们了解射手座最真实的一面吗？射手座是大孩子，天真与善良，遇到爱情时，可能让人感觉不认真，付出的比谁都少。可是，知道吗？射手座很想爱，却也很怕爱！刚开始他们只是慢慢的付出，谨慎的爱，好怕自己会受伤。可是在一句一句的爱，一天一天的相处下，射手座把带刺的防备丢掉，开始不顾一切的去爱他们所爱的人，在别人眼中，只是射手座为了达到某种目的而作的行动。可射手座不介意，他会在自己幸福的想象中陶醉，希望对方能感受自己的爱，想对方觉得与自己一齐是幸福的。在射手座爱上了一个人，他会把自己放到最后。有苦自己承担，可能会因为吵了一场小架而不开心，却也是最快认错，无论谁的错，他们都会包容，知道吗？射手座会因为深爱一个人而原谅他的背叛，会因为你的一句话付出很多。他们爱玩，在玩的同时，也希望把那一份好心情带给你，射手座是乐观的。　人们总觉得射手座的世界很快乐，可是呢？射手座难过时没有人知道，他不想让别人可怜自己，射手座不坚强，可是很善良。在你难过时哄你开心，让你有依靠，分手后，他会哭者去想属于你们俩幸福的回忆，也不想爱的人因为同情而勉强和他一齐。他比谁都希望自己爱的人快乐幸福，却常常忽略了自己，全身都是伤也笑着告诉你，我很好不用担心。　　在所有人看到他的笑容以为他没事，却不知道失恋对射手座有多大伤害，华丽的外表下有一颗脆弱的需要别人了解和安慰的心。知道嘛？你的一点关心，心思细腻的射手座会记得你对他的好，把自己的爱毫无保留的送给你，射手座是不被了解的，可他们不会怨谁。他们会傻傻的认为，让我承担吧，别让别人也受到伤害。所以，不要让快乐的射手座痛苦，别让他们最有魅力的笑容成为掩饰痛苦的伪装，认真爱射手座。你会知道射手座的爱，是充满泪水的…

Anyong-haseyo!

2010-10-21T11:33:00.008+08:00

"Anyong-haseyo! Oneul-ottoseyo? Goenchan-ayo. Je-ireumeun Queenie imnida! Mannaso-bahngap-seumnida!" What've you wrote here, Little-queen? Indian? Lol.. Well, it's Korean :P Let me do some translation here for the above sentences: "Good morning! How are you? My name is Queenie! I'm pleased to meet you!" Yeap! You're right! I'm flying off to South Korea very soon!! Kekeke.. "Congratulations! You are the Grand Prize winner for AirAsia X Korean Secret Box Challenge. You have won a pair of Premium Seat from Kuala Lumpur - Seoul (Incheon) - Kuala Lumpur. We will call you soon for flight voucher delivery." Yes! It's me! It's me ;) I'm the Grand Prize Winnie of Air Asia's Korean Secret Box Challenge!

Yeah! I will be flying off to South Korea on 11 Nov 2010 with a pair of Premium Seat from Kuala Lumpur - Seoul (Incheon) - Kuala Lumpur by Air Asia which worth RM6k over ;) Till then. Ciao~ Love ya! XOXO!!

败也要败得很漂亮！

2010-10-20T18:25:00.005+08:00

他们结婚三年，没有孩子，是大家公认的模范夫妻，脸红吵架都是没有的。她以为，所谓天长地久，不过如此。那天，她无意发现他的一条手机短信：“昨晚分开后，我一直想你。你想我吗？”他正洗澡，哗哗的水声，都盖不过她的心跳声。她回了条短信：“今晚8点在街心公园见。” 七点半，她借故出门，素面朝天，黄色家居服，就是一个随处可见的家庭妇女。在街心公园，只有一个20出头的女孩。长头发，高挑身材，稚气的一张脸，有点像张曼玉。她躲在大树背后，看着他的小情人左顾右盼地打完电话匆匆离去，她也转身回家。那条路铺满了落叶，她能听到叶子在脚下破碎的声音，眼泪掉了下来。那晚，她没有回家，去了一家咖啡馆，喝掉很多杯咖啡。想起高中时代和他的第一次牵手，想起10年后他的背叛，她可能喝“醉”了，恶心头昏，跑到洗手间，吐了个天翻地覆。天微白时，她踉跄地往回走。打开门，他坐在沙发上打盹，听到她回来努力坐好。她说，从前既往不咎，如果再有一次，我们就离婚。说着，她把手里的钥匙朝他掷了过去. 之后半个月，他果然夜夜早归。那天中午，她去办事，顺路经过他的单位，想约他一起吃午饭，正好看见他下楼。他形色匆匆地闪进一家中餐厅，入了一间包厢，她立在大门口等。一个小时后，包厢门开了，他们并肩相拥而出。她避进了大门旁边的蛋糕店，跑进角落，哭得眼睛都红了。看着橱窗里倒映的那个女人，肩膀抽搐，发髻散乱，完全是个失败者。蛋糕店的小女孩屈身，怯生生问：请问需要帮忙吗？她哽咽说不出话，摇摇头，又把头埋进膝盖，像只鸵鸟。回到家，她用清水洗净泪痕，翻开本子，用漂亮的字体列一张新的生活计划表。不再为他朝九晚五地做饭。早上去“永和”吃油条豆浆，晚上炖个美味汤，每天苦练瑜伽。周末，她请小时工收拾家务，报了一个英语班，又学习水彩画。他当然发现了她的变化，非常鼓励。他拥有了更多的自由，何乐不为？她隐忍不发。同枕共勉，她几乎睡在床沿边上。有他的那一边身体都是僵硬的。想象他们在一起的细节，屈辱、伤心……但把眼泪，吞进肚子里。这样过了半年，已经是春天了。失败的婚姻会让大多数女人丑陋，却会让一种女人激发美。她的气色好了，水彩花卉画得十分出色，还能和英俊的外籍老师流利交流。她有点底气了。 28岁生日那天，她去商场挑了件薄呢银灰外套，剪了短发，漂亮地坐在家里等他回来，把离婚协议书递给他，提着箱子扬长而去。他猝不及防，目瞪口呆。她什么都没多要，只带走了自己的日用品、衣服和一张20万的存折。价值百万的房子、车子，包括那个刚刚升任经理的男人，她都放弃了。她容忍不了不守承诺的男人。当天，她跳槽到了另一家房地产策划公司，从最普通的员工开始。她想要一个新起点。她有足够的时间和动力来完成工作，出色的英语口语，优雅衣着，卓越能力，都为她加分。 29岁，她加薪升职，30岁就拥有了自己的策划公司。她开始和一位追求自己的优秀男人约会。对方家道殷实，留学归来，欣赏独立自信的女人。他听说了她的前一段婚姻，郑重说：如果我不爱你了，会请你和我分手，决不隐瞒。当然，只要你永远这么可爱，我绝对忠诚。她笑：Me too! 他送给她的第一份礼物，是一张CD，来自爱尔兰的光头女歌手西尼德·奥康娜，素以特立独行闻名。她一听倾心。她从前是被庇护的，现在是被尊重的——这才是真正成熟的爱情吧。谈婚论嫁之后，他们去一家知名首饰店挑戒指，居然碰到了她的前夫。他仍然和那个年轻女孩在一起，正为什么而争吵，女孩一气之下甩手而去，而他苦恼地抬起头时，碰上了她温和的眼神。他一阵刺痛，举止也局促起来。这简直就是电视剧里的桥段。她若无其事地微笑，为彼此作介绍。她的未婚夫向她的前夫伸出手去，真诚地说：“谢谢你，把这么好的女人让给我。”后者的脸，红透了。在一段感情里败了，也可以败得很漂亮。她很喜欢奥康娜唱的一首歌：《Thank you for hearing me》： "Thank you, thank you for helping me. Thank you for breaking my heart. Thank you for tearing me apart. Now I'm a strong, strong heart.." 人生路上风大浪急，总有伤害潜伏如猛兽窥伺，总有机会让你蹲在角落，在“橱窗”里反观自己痛哭流涕。但你不是一只鸵鸟，你可以像奥康娜一样，谢谢对方的伤害，让你练就一颗坚不可摧的心灵，看到另一番风光。女人可以输掉一个男人，但决不能输掉自己。还有，要谢谢那些伤害过你的人，因为他们让你更坚强。输了这次，可能下一次才是你的最终。

Bill Gates' 11 Rules

2010-10-20T09:42:00.003+08:00

I received an email on Bill Gates' 11 Rules, and thought of sharing it here: Bill Gates recently gave a speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world. Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it! Rule 2: The world doesn't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself. Rule 3: You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both. Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity. Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them. Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room. Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life. Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time. Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs. Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.

Another Boring Weekday!

2010-10-19T14:03:00.001+08:00

Today is like every other boring weekday day. You wake up and there's nothing is happening. Well that is usually what weekdays are all about, get up early to work or school.. By the time I reach my office, I will probably grab a coffee for myself to start the day. I do really like coffee. Yeah, I know I drink a lot of coffee and I should be cutting down. But whatever the case is, we only live once so I am going to enjoy as much coffee as I can! Anyway I like this blogging thing, it is like venting. I hope someone reads my blog just after I finish this blog :P

Paris, France..

2010-10-18T11:35:00.005+08:00

Ah, Paris, beautiful city of lurve. Who wouldn't want to be young, free and living within a croissant's throw of the Eiffel Tower? I'm guess I'm the luckiest bugger in the world, i.e. journey to the beautiful city of lurve - Paris, France, doing the most incredible things, seeing the most beautiful landscapes possible where I spent 3 days 2 nights on a weekend experiencing a country through my eyes! Cheers!

女人心目中的好男人。。。

2010-10-04T17:01:00.005+08:00

收到同事的一份转邮。。还蛮有趣的。。心目中的好男人（22 歲時第一次寫） 1.帥 2.迷人 3.有錢 4.忠實的聽眾 5.風趣 6.體力好 7.衣著合宜 8.品味高雅 9.時時讓我驚喜 10.狂野浪漫的好情人心目中的好男人（32 歲時改寫） 1.五官端正－最好還有頭髮 2.會幫我開車門，拉座椅 3.肯花錢帶我上館子吃頓好的 4.聽的比說的多 5.聽我講笑話，該笑時會笑 6.肯幫我提菜籃 7.好歹有條領帶 8.喜歡吃我煮的菜 9.不會忘了生日及週年紀念日 10.一週至少溫存一番心目中的好男人（42 歲時改寫） 1.還像個人－禿子也無妨 2.等我上了車才開車 3.工作穩定－偶爾在麥當勞請吃大餐 4.還肯聽我說話 5.聽得懂笑話 6.搬得動傢俱 7.會找遮得住 "小" 腹的襯衫穿 8.不會笨到去買需要開瓶器的香檳 9.上完廁所能把馬桶蓋歸位 10.每週刮鬍心目中的好男人（52 歲時改寫） 1.偶爾剪個鼻毛及耳毛 2.不在公開場合打嗝或挖鼻孔 3. 謊話少說點 4.我興緻來的時候，不會呼呼大睡 5.一樣的笑話不講 N 次 6.週末還肯離開沙發 7.會穿成對的襪子及乾淨的內衣褲 8.肯吃電視快餐 9.多少記得別人的名字 10.偶爾刮個鬍子心目中的好男人 (62 歲時改寫） 1.不會嚇壞小朋友 2.還記得浴室在哪 3.大病沒有 4.醒的時候鼾聲不大（睡的時候可以大聲些） 5.還記得為發笑 6.還站得起來 7.不會光著身子亂跑 8.肯吃軟食 9.還記得假牙在哪 10.還記得。。。心目中的好男人（72歲那年改寫） 1.活著就好 2.活著就好 3.活著就好 4.活著就好 5.活著就好 6.活著就好 7.活著就好 8.活著就好 9.活著就好 10.只要活著就好，一切都無所謂。。。

I'm still alive..

2010-09-29T10:59:00.006+08:00

One upon a time, blogging was my No. 1 passion.. I blog almost everyday when something happened.. I'm bet you gonna wonder why I said so after going through my current blog. There aren't everyday one blog? Eh?? Yeah! I got a blog under the url kweeyoon.blogspot.com where I blogged almost everyday, but I have already deleted it off from the cyber world.. Why? No why.. Don't ask me why.. Let it be, let it past.. Let it be a secret forever.. Life in year 2009 to 2010 were challenging years to me, been flying on and off during these 2 years, been busy with lots of stuffs, get stressed out, and I'm still alive.. The most incredible, unbelievable, wonderful and amazing part of year 2010 is I flied to two most dream countries of the world in everyone's heart - Japan and United Kingdom ;)And and and... Soon I will be flying off to South Korea in another 2 months time :P Hehehehe.. All in all, I enjoy my life very much, don't worry, I will probably start blogging back once a while during some break. Till then. Ciao~ Love ya!

Hold my hand..

2010-09-27T13:24:00.004+08:00

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don’t fall into the river." The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What’s the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.. "There’s a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go." Conclusion, in any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...

中秋和月餅的回憶。。

2010-09-27T12:49:00.004+08:00

對中秋和月餅最深的回憶，莫过是小时某年某日提灯笼，玩蜡烛，無王管地吃月饼，大開吃戒，一個人把一整個月餅就地正法。。嘻嘻。。今年，又再逢中秋時節，不過我已好久好久没有提灯笼，玩蜡烛，獨吞一個月饼啦。。花好月圆人团圆，祝福声声伴你行，朋友，祝你中秋节快乐！

Last Day in England..

2010-09-18T22:49:00.005+08:00

** Sob sob ** I'm blogging at my serviced apartment in Kew Garden, United Kingdom for the last time while waiting the Limo to pick me up to London Heathrow Airport.. Guess what? I utilised my last day in England by visited a museum that I missed out - Natural History Museum, and revisited Victoria & Albert Museum this morning ;) I'm really in love with the museums in England :P A lots things to see and explore ;)

Last Night in England..

2010-09-18T22:45:00.007+08:00

一瓶红酒，三个女人，三个杯子，享受着在英国的最后一夜。。

自己

2010-09-18T05:10:00.003+08:00

最近发现从前的我已经消失了，是因为生活改变了我，又或者我为生活而去改变自己。。以前的我可以放肆去批评，说出心中的不满及自己的想法，如今的我为了不想伤害任何人，不想为难任何人，而放下尊严，任由别人误会，瞎猜我是怎样的一个人怎样的想法。。有时候会觉得生活没有了意义，为了别人的想法，为了不去伤害别人的自尊心而活。。为了别人着想而不能做自己想做的事情。。没了自由，没了发表及发言的空间，不能有表现自己专长的机会。。我正等待着我的平衡点。。等待有那么的一天我能表现自己专长。。

想念。。

2010-09-18T02:42:00.002+08:00

倒数一天~ 明晚回马咯！嘻嘻。。但我会想念这里的一却一却。。这里的天气，这里的工作环境。。还有。。这里的一却一却。。。

Blog from 伦敦。。

2010-09-17T18:10:00.004+08:00

好久没有blog了，一 blog 就 blog from 伦敦。。倒数两天我就要回马拉西亚了。。现在的我带着依依不舍的心情回家咯。。I will definately miss the summer's weather of United Kingdom a lotsssssssssssss！行李应该收拾好了吧！希望行李不会超重！嘻嘻。。。

It's Friday!

2010-08-04T22:02:00.001+08:00

It's FRIDAY!

F - Free
R - Relax
I - Idling
D - Dazzling
A - Act stupid
Y - Yawn

Little-queen love FRIDAY!! ;)

偶尔。。。

2010-08-04T21:37:00.003+08:00

偶尔很无聊。。。偶尔很清醒。。。偶尔却抗拒。。。偶尔有睡意。。。偶尔很伤心。。。偶尔很开心。。。偶尔有梦想。。。偶尔有梦境。。。偶尔。。。

已经很久了。。

2010-08-04T21:18:00.004+08:00

翻开了日记，看了旧的记忆，眼泪很自然的从眼眶流下。。已经很久了。。我已很久没有blog了，它已经不是我日常生活的其中一项目。。真的！真的已经很久了。。。我怎么了？？

Sex Education In German

2010-03-18T16:37:00.006+08:00

Found these from one of the forward mails, thought of it might be interesting to share with you guys =P

Forgive or not to Forgive?

2010-03-12T18:19:00.007+08:00

Just went through the video recording of yesterday morning press conference of a famous movie director in Singapore, Jack Neo and his wife, regards "Jack Neo's Affair Scandal". There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love. His wife definitely is the greatest wife in the world as she face it with him and forgive him for hurting her. You can't undo anything you've already done, but you can face it up. You can tell the truth. You can seek forgiveness. And let God do the rest.. All the guys out there, I hope all of you could appreciate the one who loved you with her heart, don't ever break your loved one's heart like Jack Neo did ;)

Stomachache..

2010-03-10T22:11:00.011+08:00

I woke up in the middle of last night with stomach cramps, and I clutched a pillow, curled my body around it. Yes!! It helped a little bit, and I went back to sleep as normal. But I woke up this morning, the pain is still there, Ouch.. I have a stomachache!! Ouch... Stomachache is one of the more annoying things in my life, especially when I have things to do. Tell me what can I do to get rid of them =(

Little Souvenir from USA!

2010-03-08T18:12:00.005+08:00

I filled my eye with an eyeful Green M&M's (bought from USA) yesterday from Sandra! Thanks Nee, love it so much and love you too! Muacksss! Green M&M's: "I melt for no one."

Happy Women's Day!

2010-03-08T17:28:00.009+08:00

Good evening! A very happy Women's Day (8 March) to all of you! Women's Day - a global day celebrating the economic, political and social achievements of women past, present and future. Why just women? Why not all? This is because women have willed themselves to stand behind (despite their own accomplishments) and look after their families! This is because women have chosen to put everything else aside and let their children take prominence in their lives and hearts! In some places like China, Russia, Vietnam and Bulgaria, etc, Women's Day is a national holiday, but not Malaysia? Why? Why? Why..? Anyhow, how good if all the women around the world can have a day off today while all men around the world have to work on today =P

3 Stupid Stages of Life

2009-12-01T15:11:00.005+08:00

We have 3 stupid stages of life: - Teen age: Have Time + Energy but no Money - Working Age: Have Money + Energy but no Time - Old age: Have Time + Money but no Energy

Times Flies..

2009-11-30T11:38:00.010+08:00

If I'm counting right, it's been exactly 129 days since my last blog on 24.07.09.. Times flies.. Times like the wind, it lifts the light and leaves the heavy..

A Sad Story..

2009-07-24T10:30:00.013+08:00

This is a very sad story, a true story of my girl friend who has struggled to get through some difficulties to give birth a baby of her and her loved one. All of us have prayed hard for her and her unborn baby, that they can able to pass through all the difficulties together. Unfortunately, my girl friend faced the harsh reality that her unborn baby die after 4 days of continuous bleeding. I was asking the unborn baby "Why did you not come with happy cries but made your mother's soul weep painful cries? Just before your precious eyes could open, your soul could feel the essence of this world, but why did you not take that breath?" I know not everything in this world comes sweet and with a smile, but this incident will definitely made my girl friend's life full of scars and thorns, as she has lost two unborn babies within these two years. I know nothing much we can help and do for her, but just hoping that she will get through all the darkness and smile again.

No Pain No Gain

2009-07-15T10:31:00.019+08:00

Got this meaningful message from one of the email forwarded by my friend. No Pain No Gain… Accept the Pain, Future will be Fruitful… Don't feel the work you are doing is pain, because there will be always a reason for that pain or work. So face the pain, for the pain you face, there will be definitely happiness a head.

Science and Mathematics in English

2009-07-14T10:43:00.023+08:00

Frankly speaking, I'm very very sadden with the changes of Science and Mathematics which proposed to teach in English back to Bahasa Malaysia again by our current government.

As for me, I took BA (Hons) Accountancy and Finance after my secondary school. Guess what? Some of the basic subjects we have actually already learnt them in Bahasa Malaysia during our secondary school, and it in English once we entered College or University, and we study it again, don't you think it is very funny and time consuming? Moreover, our brain has actually assimilated the Bahasa Malaysia, and we might need some times to get use with English starting from zero again. Not even now, I can't really speak a fluent English, I guess many of them out there are having the same problem as me too, especially those graduate from a so called "Kebangsaan" seconday School, what's a shame right? My personal opinion is English teaching for Science and Mathematics would be a brilliant idea to make our next generation to be more successful, intelligent, and able to compete with outbounds. Anyhow, Bahasa Malaysia is still a very important subject in our country as if we fail it, we will never get any certificate, so I guess teaching of Science and Mathematics in English still does not affect Bahasa Malaysia at all. Am I right to say so? Anyway, I wonder why not just make the schools in certain vicinity to teach these subjects in English and some in Bahasa Malaysia? Then, we, the rakyat, will be the one decide on what language to be taught for!

Six Millionaire Traits that We Can Adopt

2009-07-12T11:26:00.007+08:00

Millionaires have more in common with each other than just their bank accounts - for some millionaires, striking it rich took courage, salesmanship, vision and passion. Find out which traits are most common to the seven-figure bank account set, and what you can do to hone some of these skills in your own life.

1. Independent Thinking Millionaires think differently. Not just about money, about everything. The time and energy everybody else spends attempting to conform, millionaires spend creating their own path. Since thoughts impact actions, people who want to be wealthy should think in a way that will get them to that goal. Just look at David Geffen. A self-made millionaire with $4.5 billion to his name in 2009, this American record executive and film producer was college dropout, but made millions founding record agencies and signed some of the most prominent musicians of the 1970s and '80s. Although he didn't take what many assume to be the usual path to success, his tireless work ethic and sense of personal conviction about artists' potential allowed him to rack up a sizable fortune. 2. Vision Millionaires are creative visionaries with a positive attitude. In other words, wealthy people not only have big dreams, they also believe they will come true. As such, wealth seekers should set lofty goals and not be afraid of uncharted territories. Bill Gates, the world's richest person in 2009, did just that. The American chairman of Microsoft (NYSE:MSFT) is one of the founding entrepreneurs who brought personal computers to the masses. Gates jumped into the personal computers business in 1975 and held on tight, creating Microsoft Windows in 1985. When consumers began to bring computers into their homes, Gates was ready to profit from this new age. 3. Skills Writer Dennis Kimbro interviewed successful people to determine the traits they had in common for his book, "Think and Grow Rich" (1992). He found that they concentrated on their area of excellence. Millionaires also tend to partner with others to supplement their weaker skills. If you don't know what you are good at, poll friends and family. Use training and mentors to refine your strong skills. 4. Passion Billionaire investing guru Warren Buffett says "Money is a by-product of something I like to do very much." Enjoying your work allows you to have the discipline to work hard at it every day. People who interact with money for a living, bankers for example, often love creating new deals and persuading others to complete a transaction. But finding your dream job may take time. The average millionaire doesn't find it until age 45, and tends to be 54 (on average) before becoming a millionaire. 5. Investment Millionaires are willing to sacrifice time and money to achieve their goals. They are willing to take a risk now for the opportunity of achieving something greater in the future. Investing may include securities or starting a business - either way, it is a step toward achieving great financial rewards. Start investing now. 6. Salesmanship Millionaires are constantly presenting their ideas and persuading others to buy into them. Good salesmen are oblivious to critics and naysayers. In other words, they don't take "no" for an answer. Millionaires also have good social skills. In fact, when writer T. Harv Eker analyzed the results of a survey of 753 millionaires for his book, "Secrets of the Millionaire Mind" (2005), he found social skills were more important than IQ. Just look at Donald Trump. His fortune has fluctuated over the years, but his ability to sell himself - whether as a TV personality or as the force behind a line of neckties - has always brought him back among the ranks of celebrity millionaires. * The above article credited to investopedia.com *

Fluent English Speaker!

2009-07-07T19:25:00.012+08:00

I know I can't really speak fluent English, yet don't laugh at me, I'm trying my best to improve my oral communication skills in English now, and targeted to be a fluent English speaker in one to two years time =P Well! All of us know that when children start learn to talk, they actually learn by subconsciously copying the adults. So, when they do start trying the words out, their language and accent would be similar to that of the adults around them. So, similarly, if anyone of us want to become fluent in English, it would be a good idea to listen to it as much as possible. Watch English movies and soaps, listen to English music or even buy a CD of novels read out in English that we could listen to. The more we listen to the language, more comfortable you become with it. Subconsciously, our brain begins to assimilate this language so that when we use it, we would be more likely to use it correctly with only a little accent. But, listening alone would not take us all the way. We have to practice too. Start reading out English stories and news aloud. Find a friend who would also like to improve his/her English and practice together. When we watch a movie, how about re-enacting a scene from it for friends or family or do this in front of the mirror. Conclusion, listen and speak more!

Monday Morning Struggles

2009-07-01T12:22:00.009+08:00

It's Monday again! Monday morning is just hard for me to get up =(

Think Rich to Become Rich

2009-07-01T11:52:00.013+08:00

T. Harv Eker, the multimultimillionaire (this is how he describes himself), he taught us to think rich to become rich in his book "Secrets of the Millionaire Mind".

Some of the wealth principles that support his idea taken in his exact words are:

Your income can grow only to the extent you do.

If you want to change the fruits, you will first have to change the roots. If you want to change the visible, you must first change the invisible.

Money is a result; your weight is a result. We live in a world of cause and effect.

When the subconscious mind must choose between deeply rooted emotions and logic, emotions will almost always win.

If your motivation for acquiring money or success comes from a none supportive root such as fear, anger, or the need to "prove" yourself, your money will never bring you happiness.

You can choose to think in ways that will support you in your happiness and success instead of ways that don’t.

Rich people believe “I create my life.” Poor people believe “Life happens to me.”

Money is extremely important in the areas in which it works, and extremely unimportant in the areas in which it doesn’t.

When you are complaining, you become a living, breathing ‘crap magnet’.

There is no such thing as a really rich victim!

Rich people play the money game to win. Poor people play the money game not to lose.

There’s nothing wrong with getting a steady paycheck, unless it interferes with your ability to earn what you’re worth. There’s the rub. It usually does.

Financial Genius

2009-07-01T11:01:00.008+08:00

You don’t have to be a genius to be wealthy. Although high IQ definitely helps, it is more important to have emotional intelligence in order to get rich. Well! All of us learn the simple arithmetic in primary schools. For example, you certainly know “8 = 10-2”. There is really no challenging mathematics involved in personal finance. Simple plus and minus equation is all you need. The two most essential equations in personal finance are: S = I – E Where S = Savings, I = Income, E = Expenses and NW = A – L Where NW = Net Worth, A = Assets, L = Liabilities In the quest of acquiring wealth, one must have a positive S all the time. Only through smart utilization of your savings can ensure that your net worth will increase over time. The above philosophy credited to the book "Top Money Tips For Malaysians"

100% at Work

2009-06-30T14:14:00.006+08:00

I always give 100% at work: 13% on Monday 22% on Tuesday 26% on Wednesday 35% on Thursday and 4% on Friday =P

Monday Blues

2009-06-29T15:19:00.009+08:00

I'm having a serious case of "Mondayitis" today after an unforgettable weekend spent! =P Have a great Monday everyone out there!

Driving??

2009-06-17T15:18:00.015+08:00

Okies! I'm going to blog something weird about me here, and I'm sure you're going to laugh at me! I'm 25 and coming 26 soon, and I know this is a bit weird that I have my driving license but I still not really know how to drive, and I have this deep rooted fear of driving =S My closed one has been forcing me to drive his manual Myvi since last month, and I always told him that I'm still not ready to drive anywhere yet and giving lots of excuse for not to drive.

Actually I'm seriously tried to learn how to drive last week, but I was still so freaked out and couldn't get out of my neighbourhood =( I guess the fear deep inside me is still holding me back from driving.. Sad..

My Blog Shops!

2008-10-19T12:23:00.021+08:00

Sorry for not updating my blog for quite some times. Guess where have I been lately? Hehe.. I been trying to make some pocket money with my dear through our blog shops =P Yes, our blog shops been struggling more than a month, and yes, yes yes yes, my dear and I did make some pocket money through it in a month time, although it not a big money, it's just about RM100.00, but we feel happy that at least we earn something from it =P Honestly, there’s hardly to have enough exposure for our blog shops, so guys, do help us promote our blog shops ya =P Cheers! Have a good day, everyone!

OMG!! I'm blogging again!

2008-10-01T20:50:00.008+08:00

Oh my god!! I'm blogging again!! Oh yeah, I'm blogging here again after two months time since my last blog dated 19 July 2008, just because of my darling, Jessey Jie.. =P

Miracle Man Walks Again!

2008-07-19T09:04:00.009+08:00

Peng Shu Lin's body was cut in two by a lorry in 1995, it was little short of a medical miracle that he lived. It took a team of more than 20 doctors to save his life. His skin was grafted from his head to seal his torso. And the legless Mr Peng was left only 78cm (2ft 6in) tall. Bedridden for years, doctors in Chin a had little hope that he would ever be able to live anything like a normal life again. But recently, he began exercising his arms, building up the strength to carry out everyday chores such as washing his face and brushing his teeth. Doctors at the Chin a Rehabilitation Research Centre in Beijing found out about Mr Peng's plight late last year and devised a plan to get him up walking again. They came up with an ingenious way to allow him to walk on his own, creating a sophisticated egg cup-like casing to hold his body with two bionic legs attached to it.

He has been taking his first steps around the centre with the aid of his specially adapted legs and a resized walking frame. Mr Peng, who has to learn how to walk again, is said to be delighted with the device. What a Self Confidence! Great! See a sort of inexplicable enthusiasm, firm confidence and indomitable tenacity in his face?! Marvelous?! For people who make themselves in distress because of futile, frivolous and trivial reasons? Let's take him as your motivation and earn myriad lessons from him.

Finding my perfect work-life balance..

2008-04-09T21:42:00.017+08:00

I do have a job, you do have a job and everyone do have a job, but how many of them are finding their job interesting, and how many of them can ensure their job doesn't take over their life, so that they have time for other interests?

I'm finding my perfect work-life balance, I guess everyone is the same, am I right?

How many of them dreaming Google working environment? I guess everyone do, right? It’s good to know you can get away from your desk if you need to, there’s a coffee shop, a chillout area, you can chat with your colleagues, and then return to your work after the short break. And, there's an onside dentist and chiropractor, you can just pop down there without taking a morning or afternoon off for an appointment. Or even an onside gym, a climbing wall, swimming pool, tennis courts and a variety of other diversions when you're ready to take a break? Google office cool right?

For me? Work-life balance is very appealing. I hope I have a fulfilling career without doing excessive hours, and of course I will put in extra hours if I required, I know there’s lots of give and take, I hope my efforts, my hard works will be recognised and rewarded. I hope I will be gaving a day off for my birthday, some subsidising expenses like study sponsorship, handphone or travelling allowances as such, and staging company fun days or company trips where my family or my closed one are invited. Haha.. ^^

Should I accept or decline?

2008-02-27T22:07:00.011+08:00

I gave my one-week notice, by handing my letter of resignation to my boss and I feel relieved, because I think the hard part is over, yet I've promised my boss to stay for one month further for them to look for the replacement. While waiting the excitement of looking and starting a new job that replace the anxiety of quitting my present job during one month time, my boss messes up me by making me a counteroffer, which slightly a bit higher than what I'm having currently, asking me to reconsider, and telling me that I can expect to learn much more than what I'm doing currently. But what keep me in mind that they are likely to make a counteroffer much more for their benefit than mine. They might be making a counteroffer only to take advantage of me, until they find a cheaper or more dedicated replacement, am I right? Should I stay or should I go? Most of the career advisors advised it’s not a good idea to accept a counteroffer and I agreed so. "Why did they wait until I resigned, to offer me what I’m really worth to them?" I asked myself. And, once I've made it clear that I want to jump ship, my loyalty will be in question to them too. Anyway, I just don't feel like reconsider once I've make up my mind to resign my present job. I think I should land a new job with more pay and growth potential for myself. Am I right?

Happy New Year!

2008-01-02T21:15:00.006+08:00

"Happy New Year!" January 1 marks the end of a period of remembrance of a particular passing year and that greeting will be said and heard for at least the first couple of weeks in January.

It's new year, a new year filled with hopes, aspirations and joy, let's embrace the dawn of a new beginning..

I must work really hard this year for achieving my dreams I want in my life. I guess, err mm.. I must not only work really hard but must also work really smart. Yes! I will see my dreams, my goals for life continue to become realities! ^^

It's time for Santa's gifts..

2007-12-11T20:49:00.010+08:00

Not long to go now, I'm sure everyone of us are very excited about Christmas.

It's Christmas once again! Are we all getting ready for our Christmas party, buying our secret Santa's gifts for mistletoe kisses and for togetherness, or finding recipes for our Christmas bake?

Just before all the Christmas madness, let's us all look back and think about the last 12 months and I guess all of us would like to know how 2007 was for us.

For me? Erm.. 2007 was a year of change, of discovery, of new beginnings and needed closures, it's been a year of making new friends, losing old ones, and I'd met some great people and some not so great people, and I learned to find my way around and judge people better. It's also been a time of rekindling old friendships that were lost for one reason or another. It has been a year of laughter, as well as tears, times of trials and times of triumphs. Each experience has been a growing experience and a memory that will stay with me forever.

I'm a year older now. It's hard for me to believe that another year has come and gone, and I’m another year older. I know I will see more friends go separate directions from the path my life is going. I know I will have my heart broken a few more times before I find the happiness that I hope for. I know that I have not achieve much of the dreams I want in my life. But, I will never give up the feeling of youth I have inside and the dreams I still strive for. And, I know that there's someone who are closest to me will see how much I need him and he'll always be with me, encouraging me, conforming me and supporting me. And, I believe I will see my dreams, my goals for life continue to become realities.

And before I go, to all of those who have been there for me over this past year, thank you for your friendship, your encouragement and your love. For my new friends, thank you for the smiles you put on my face with your wit and charm. To those I may have let down, I am truly sorry, and to those who have made me sad, I forgive you. I feel truly fortunate to have you all in my life and I raise my glass to each and every one of you, sharing the joys of this merry occasion with all of you. Cheers.

"Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all of you, wishing all of you a great success and happiness for the year ahead and we'll see each others in 2008!"

Anyway, do come and visit my page often, and become a 'fan' of Little-queen. And, if you guys have any feedback for me, why not post it on my side? Whether it’s good or bad, I always love to know what you’re thinking, let's me know.. ^^

Time passed..

2007-12-09T11:34:00.007+08:00

I caught myself a strange feeling, by seeing the secondary students who wearing school uniform walking and passing in front of me, seeing that they fooling each others, laughing and then crossing the road. Sudden, the years slid back in a twinkling of my eyes, and I miss my primary and secondary school life, I feel that myself did not really make the best use of my past school life and enjoy it thoroughly. And now, I so envy of them who just passed in front of me just a moment ago, and I so wanted to tell them, and ask them to make great use and enjoy their school life thoroughly. Recalled back to my college life, looking at the pictures took with my college mate which store in my desktop, I started to miss them, started to miss the time we spent, and wondering did I make the best use and enjoy the time we spent together thoroughly. Now, I was in times long passed by, I passed my 24 birthday which celebrated with my beloved friends and my dearest one, Elvin no longer ago, I am 24 now.. I must learn to make use of the time to its maximum and do not waste any precious time of mine, I have waste 24 years and how many years left do I really have? Time is precious, every sunrise and sunset, a day is gone behind, even if one cries for it, it will not return. Time waits for no man but time surely will make us old men..

Coffee or Cup?

2007-12-08T09:10:00.007+08:00

Friends, read an article about coffee or cup, so thought of sharing this article with you guys, happy reading and enjoy our life as it comes.

"The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems, but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect."

A group of graduates, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor. Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.

The professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups - porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to the coffee.

When all the students had a cup of coffee, the professor said: "If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the simple and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases, it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups. Then you began eyeing each other's cups."

Now consider this, said the professor, "Life is the coffee, the jobs, the money and the position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain Life, and the type of cup we have does not define, nor change the quality of Life we live. Sometimes, by concentrating on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee God has provided us. Enjoy your coffee!"

The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything. Four things to take note of in life.
1. Live simply
2. Love generously
3. Care deeply
4. Speak kindly

So, start shine a light and enjoy your Coffee this morning!! Cheers ^^

Thank you..

2007-11-22T22:27:00.005+08:00

This isn't the time to brag about my new job, it's the time for thanking, thank to them (my ex-boss, ex-lady boss, ex-managers and ex-colleagues) who gave me direction, guidance, tender care, added comfort and warmth in the working atmosphere at Steven Lim & Associates (my ex-office). It's been the source of great personal and career satisfaction for me in the past 2 years, and I am grateful. I may want more than anything to show you guys once, thank you guys.

In the hurried rush of days, I know I never told you guys that how much you guys means to me. You guys entered my life with tender care, added comfort and warmth. And, you guys have become part of my life, my world now. I think I will miss you guys a lots when you guys no more being around me.

Within my being, my life or my heart, your name will always hang right beside your smiling face. Remembering how we build our friendship in the office, it made me smile and it was part of the precious moments for me in my life.

And, thank again for the entertainment, lunch and gifts that you guys spent for blessing me, fare well with me.

Thank again, Chai Yi, Christy, May Syn, Jezz and Eric, for wishing me a bright undertaking in future with the naughty boy lamp, it's cute, love it so much.

Rashida, thank you for the cup that you bought me, that my new job is my cup of tea..

It's not overkill to say thank again, right? So say it again, thank you, Mr Chew, Mrs Chew, Ms Fock, Ms June, Ravi, Odelia, Sammy, Kamini, Chai Yi, Christy, Rashida, Dila, May Syn, Jezz and Eric, and all my ex-collegues, Hean, Siow, Siao Hong, Bryan, Loke, Kerry and Myan for the precious moments you guys gave. Thank.

Is it my Job Desired?

2007-11-14T23:27:00.007+08:00

I been going to several job sites last month, JobStreet.com, JobsDB.com, JenJobs.com, and some other more, searching for the job that I desire, that I dream of, looking for a meaningful employment for myself.

With the intention to have myself equipped with all the financial expertise and strategic ability as to make giant leaps in the complexity business world nowadays, I wish to gain enough experiences for myself with all real life management skills as to develop an understanding of the meaning and relevance of figures, facts and information which critical to business success.

I been working in an office in conducting statutory audit and finalizing audit reports, preparing full set of accounts manually or computerise, preparing basic income tax computation and other other tax compliance works, for various companies for 2 years. Besides, I do handle internal accounting functions such as reconciliation of accounts, preparation of accounting journal entries, payment vouchers and receipt vouchers as well as handle multi-task administration functions such as monthly payroll records, data sorting and filing. Do my working experiences as so were really valuable? Well, to me, absolutely yes! It will make a larger leaps in my next job! What I mean is I can get a good pay for them.

But it’s time for a change.. So, I guess I'll just blurt it out, I'm going to different kind of work I've been doing. And, thank god that I could get myself a reasonable pay although I knew nothing of the work. I made a promise that I will learn, improve and to keep up a good work, and not to give up easily although it's hard, because I know, it will make up a large part of my identity as to make giant leaps in my future job. Sounds trivial, I know, but I think these are very desirable things.

For the coming work, I was responsible for production budget review and cost monitoring, preparing monthly variance analysis and reports on the progress and performance for each project to management, processing and controlling production payment, monitoring cash advances for the Production Team, preparing weekly production cash flow projection, identify process weaknesses, recommend and implement effective cost control measure, check and review data entry prepared by Costing Assistants, assisting in production funds planning, compiling the operating budget, project feasibility studies and evaluations or any any ad-hoc projects as and when required.

I know this work is different and difficult than being a good schmooser at networking events and it's carried a big responsibilities. It's more than being sociable at any parties, more than being nice and sweet. But, I know, I will have this unique skills as I go along. And, I know, as these type of thing happens over and over, It will just comes naturally for me.

Bless and pray for me that I will doing well and enjoy my new journey. Hope it's will be your delight to hear of my success in future that I'm doing well. And, I do appreciate all the blessings and encouragements gave to me when I were first blurted it out. Thank guys.

Let's Help End World Hunger

2007-11-13T21:00:00.006+08:00

Ten million people die every year of hunger and hunger-related diseases. Only eight percent are the victims of high-profile earthquakes, floods, droughts and wars. The rest are often forgotten. Who are they? They are hungry people in developing countries who don't make the headlines and most of us probably won't know that they are 820 million in total, more than the combined populations of the United States, Canada and the European Union.

What if you knowing that each word you get right through a vocabulary game could help feed 820 million hungry people around the world, will you get a right word for them?

Well, at FreeRice, each word you get right, you have already donated 10 grains of rice through the United Nations to help all the end world hunger. I did. I have already donated 5470 grains of rice, and I will keep donate more, what's about you?

Whether you are CEO of a large corporation or a street child in a poor country, improving your vocabulary can improve your life. It is a great investment in yourself. Perhaps even greater is your donated rice makes in hungry human beings, enabling them to function and be productive. It's even precious when you knowing that somewhere in the world, a person is eating rice that you helped provide.

For your information, the rice is paid for by the advertisers whose names you see on the bottom of your vocabulary screen. Through their advertising at FreeRice, these companies support both learning and reducing hunger. Thank to them and FreeRice.

So, what are you waiting now? Let's play the vocabulary game at FreeRice and feed a hungry person.

So it all begins again..

2007-10-31T20:35:00.005+08:00

Yeah, you see, I'm blogging again after a month. Been busy with work, social and date. Never thought of I'm free now at this very moment and I blogging again, right? Yeah, never say never. I love blogging actually. The idea of pouring out my heart, my soul and my thoughts and guts all over this vast space called the Internet. Well then, where should I begin? Anyway, yeah, never say never, exciting stuff lies ahead..

Warren Buffet's Philosophies

2007-10-01T19:21:00.003+08:00

Warren Buffet, the second richest man after Bill Gates.

His advice to young people:

"Stay away from credit cards and invest in yourself and Remember:
A. Money doesn't create man but it is the man who created money.
B. Live your life as simple as you are.
C. Don't do what others say, just listen them, but do what you feel good.
D. Don't go on brand name; just wear those things in which u feel comfortable.
E. Don't waste your money on unnecessary things; just spend on them who really in need rather.
F. After all it's your life then why give chance to others to rule our life."

I will buy his original book one day I guess, I love his philosophies very much =P

Life and Love

2007-09-19T19:49:00.007+08:00

I read a touching story about Love and Life in one of the forward mails, it's meaningful and touching, so thought of sharing the story over here.

"My husband is an engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.

Two years of courtship and now, five years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.

I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings. I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband is my complete opposite; his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about Love.

One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce. 'Why?' he asked and shocked. 'I am tired. There are no reasons for everything in the world!' I answered.

He kept silent the whole night, seemingly in deep thought. My feeling of disappointment only increased. Here was a man who was not able to even express his predicament, so what else could I expect from him?

And finally he asked me: 'What can I do to change your mind?' Somebody said it right. It's hard to change a person's personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes, I slowly answered: 'Here is the question. If you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind. Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death. Will you do it for me?' He said: 'I will give you your answer tomorrow.' My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes...

My dear, 'I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further...' This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.

'When you use the computer you always mess up the software programs, and you cry in front of the screen. I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs.

You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs torush home to open the door for you.

You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city. I have to save my eyes to show you the way.

You always have the cramps whenever your 'good friend' approaches every month. I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.

You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes andstories to cure your boredom.

You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes. I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the colour of the glow on your young face.

Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do. I could not pick that flower yet, and die.'

My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting and as I continue on reading. 'Now, that you have finished reading my answer, and if you are satisfied, please open the front door for me, I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk.'

I rushed to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread. Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does,and I have decided to leave the flower alone."

The moral of this story:
When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms; even in very small and cheeky forms. It has never been a model. It could be the dullest and most boring form.

Flowers and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands. And that's Life.

The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems, but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect.

Love is not just between two lovers, husband and wife, it also encompass mother, father, siblings, sisters and brothers, friends and neighbors.

That's Life and Love.

Warmth in Relationship

2007-09-10T20:56:00.007+08:00

Gotta a story from a forward mail, it's really worth reading, so thought of sharing this story with you guys.

"A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes.

When the boy was around two years old, one morning, the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office, so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital. He died.

The mother was stunned! She was terrified how she was going to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words, 'I am with you Darling'.

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her."

The moral of this story:
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. But how many of us can act like the husband?

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. So, take off all our envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And we will find things are actually not as difficult as we think.

Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

It's not the will to win, but the will to prepare to win that makes the difference.

Fortune Cookie of Mine

2007-09-09T17:09:00.005+08:00

Guess what message inside I get from a Fortune Cookie last night?

Well, for those who don't know what's Fortune Cookie, Fortune Cookie is a delicate, crisp cookie, which made from flour, sugar, butter, vanilla and milk, that baked around a fortune, a piece of paper with words or maybe a list of lucky numbers so called lottery numbers.

The message inside my Fortune Cookie - "Friend is a very rare jewel. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed."

Argg.. The message inside just making me missing my friends that I have long lost contact with them.

Yeah. Friend is a very rare jewel. They make me smile and encourage me to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their heart to me. Every little hello, every little smile, every little helping hand just conform me.

I don't know how our friendship happens or when it gets started, but I know you guys are the most precious gift god gave me! Thanks you guys for being part of my life and I will do always remember you guys and miss you guys!

Where's My Time?

2007-09-04T21:28:00.005+08:00

Sorry for not updating my blog for a while. Have been so tired with work, social and date, there’s hardly to have enough time for me to surf blogs and write blogs, yet it's not mean that I'm giving up to write blogs.

I love blogs much, especially I could share some thoughts, some stories, while earning some pocket money through it. Although I can't earn much from my blog right now but I believe cents can be accumulated into a dollar, and a dollar can be accumulated into dollars, it's just take some times.

Cheers! Have a good day, everyone!

Extreme Weather Changing

2007-08-27T21:22:00.004+08:00

It was warm for a few days, then rainy for another few days. I think I am not able to keep up with this extreme weather changing.

Sometimes, I would tell my friends that the world is changing so much that anomalies is happening too often. The sky can be suddenly turned so dark or so orange in a shiny day.

Lots of them said that the world is going to end very soon. Till now, I'm still not sure if they were joking or not.

Anyway, I just want it to rain at nights and shiny brightly in the mornings. The rains will give me a good rest every night and the sun will keep me energized during the day, but not the extremely hot shiny day please.

Malaysian Mega Sales

2007-08-01T21:00:00.007+08:00

It's the Malaysian Mega Sale again!

The Malaysian Mega Sales, a phrase that brings delight to women, but fears to men I guess. Well, not all men I suspect but usually those married ones or in a relationship ones. Am I right?

For the moment, I do really hope that I having a platinum card which can swipe for the umpteenth time in an hour. Unfortunately, I know that money do grow on trees but in an orchard that does not belong to me.

Anywhere, I will go on and enjoy the sale though!

Cheers! Have an enjoyable August, everyone!

My Dreams, My Journey

2007-07-31T21:17:00.005+08:00

Everyone do have some dreams for themselves, having a car maybe, a house maybe, having a small organised family maybe, having a success career maybe, to be respected maybe, pass every single of their exam with flying colour maybe, or else?

I have all of these dreams too where I had tried hard to get myself there for these dreams.

My dreams, to complete my professional studies and get recognised as professional, to be experienced, to get a good career, good offer for myself maybe, to have my own car, own house and my own little happy family, and of course to get myself travel all around the world!

I trying hard to prepare myself for all these dreams, preparing for all the battle of my journey to all these dreams.

For achieving these dreams, horrible sense of tension builds up, and I feel stuck in a place. I actually feel like it's really not right for every single second even now just after I failed my very first attempt for my CIMA exam papers terribly. No jokes! I passed none of the 3 strategic papers of CIMA I sat for! Feeling so terribly sorry to myself, my unpaid leave, my times, my supporter and encourager, especially my dad and my mum, my beloved one and friends.

Instead of getting my stuffs together and doing what I need to, I’m blogging about it! I feel like I could have a fit right now from this very moment, I could telling myself that I’ve got so much stuff to round up and get done everyday, I must keep my steps forward.

07-07-07, Once in Our Life

2007-07-12T21:49:00.005+08:00

The New 7 Wonders of the World were announced during the Official Declaration ceremony in Lisbon, Portugal on 07-07-07. Thousands of couples are getting married on 07-07-07 just so they can claim 07-07-07 as their wedding date. For companies ranging from caterers to casinos, it's definitely a lucky day for their business on 07-07-07 as brides, gamblers seek services on allegedly lucky day. Live Earth used the global reach of music to engage people on a mass scale to combat our climate crisis on 07-07-07.

Guess what I'm doing that day? For me, I attended a 07-07-07 special birthday party of one of my best sisters, Audrie. Having BBQ chicken wings which was delivered so far from Cameran Highland to Puchong, fried mee and mee hon by Audrie's mom, sandwich special made by Audrie and her youngest sister, french fries, home made asam lasak by Audrie's grandmom I guess, nudgets, pork fillets, some fresh fruits and of course brithday cakes too.

That's how I passed my 07-07-07, the only 07-07-07 in my life! So, what's about you guys? I wonder will I have another chance to pass 07-07-07 in my life once again? Maybe it's 07-07-2107, how's old am I on that time? *LOL*

A Hill in front of Us

2007-05-15T12:31:00.005+08:00

About one year back, on a public holiday, Thaipusum, I went to climb a hill called Bukit Melawati, and it was a great fun Saturday I ever have in my life I guess.

Bukit Melawati formed of tough and unerodable material are naturally concave. Note that since it is composed of various layers, a higher hill may change from convex to concave and back again or vice versa. And also note that the road itself will not always follow the terrain, indeed, it may be steepest where the hill is less steep and wind its way alongside the steepest part of the slope.

An even-grade climb probably owes its uniformity to an artificial slope, although some natural slopes have an even grade for long distances. Approaching such a hill by walking up site down, it appears to get lower as you get closer. Limestone hill are naturally convex. A concave hill is steepest at the top, thus when approaching a mountain of this type, it will appear taller as I get closer.

I, myself may want to power over it. If it's a convex hill and it's steepest at the bottom, it is definitely in our best interest to do so, even if it is damn dangerous to do so. To power over a small hill or over the steep part of a longer hill, one among us picks up speed on the flat before reaching the hill, she is my dearest roomate, Chii Huey, she is the one who picks up speed so quickly and left us behide, we all keep crazy calling her so that she can stop a mean while to let us catch up on her.

Even though I am not especially powerful, but I do like trips in the mountains and hills because I enjoy the scenery and the woods. I am always careful and never let myself get too tired or too hungry, as that leads to frustation. It's better to stop and enjoy the view than to get frustrated on a mountainside. Am i right?

In short, learning to climb hills and mountains opens up my eyes to the world. I enjoyed it very much!

Soh Phee's Condo

2007-05-15T12:29:00.004+08:00

One year and five months back then on a great Saturday dated 14 January 2006. We went to Admiral Marian Condo (Soh Phee's Condo) which located at Port Dickson for two days a night trip just to catch this very special weekend where we can have steamboat and funs with each others.

It's about 4 or 5pm something we reach Port Dickson if I not mistaken and it's kinda hot with the afternoon sun's rays on the beach. We went for beach football and beach volleyball no longer we arrived there. Oh god, I hurt my right foot's finger nail while playing beach football *sob sob*

The most funny moment happened on January 14, 2006's night when we having streamboat with each other, each of us keep staring each other while waiting the soup bubble up, it's funny thought we not speaking and staring each others while waiting our yummy foods boiled =P

By the way, i enjoyed with the shipping activity in the sunshine morning on January 15, 2006. It's cool, guys!! That.. is another greatest weekend encountered by our adventurezz team!

With me around, greatest things are destined to happen =P

Taman Pertanian, Shah Alam

2007-05-15T12:20:00.005+08:00

Today I would like to share about one of the wonderful moments that I had in life. One year five months back then on a great Sunday dated 8 January 2006. Simon, my ex-colleague, my ex-proton team, he's someone I kinda had a little feelings for but we're not attached though and we both are kinda love adventures and funs, he dated me for a cycling activity at Taman Pertanian, Shah Alam with his friends, his ex-colleagues and his sister.

Though it was a year ago I been cycling there with my classmates and friends, I able to catch this very special cycling activity once again with another gang of new friends who love adventure as i do. Though it was the first time I know all your guys through this cycling activity, I kinda enjoy it with all of you guyz. It's kinda cool and great to know all of you guyz, Ong, Yung Yung, Lew, Chong, Shiau Leng, Sophie, Cai Hong and Simon's sister, Susan. Nice to meet you guys, I hope I do not spell you guys' name incorrectly.

We went up to the hill and down the hill while enjoying the crowdy sky with cool breezy winds brushing our hair as we cycling. And, the Winter Season in the Four Season House with the temperatures of - 2 c to - 7 c, it's freezing!! This is the first time i being in Winter Season, cool right!! It's kinda weird and crazy we went to Jalan Ipoh, Kuala Lumpur to have our lunch after our cycling activity, actually our breakfast around 2pm something from Shah Alam. However, I'm enjoying. Thanks guys for the adventure and fun time!

That is one of the greatest moments I've encountered in life. It's better to have the best moments rather than not having at all." Am i right?

Falling In and Out of Love

2007-05-14T16:24:00.006+08:00

Here comes the story! Guy and girl gets together. They love each other. Let's say the guy is a jerk, the guy decided to call it quits one day and girl gets heartbroken badly. Cried for countless nights and still couldn't get over with it. None of the remedy she tried could help herself.

Yes, it's love! The mumbo jumbo feeling and stuff and it's making a big hole in people's heart. He came into her life and leave with a big hole in her heart. There will be a hole, but what she can do is she just have to learn to deal with it.

Patch things up and go on with life. Think about the days she was single and she lived her life happily without even needing the other half. Why? How? The days are still there but it's she the one who want to think that it's the end of the world.

Yeah, she know it hurts but she will get over it one day very soon. People said, time will heal all your hole. Is it truth? Maybe it is or maybe not. Anywhere, if she still complaining then it's just a habit to be with the other half. How about getting use to another situation for a change.

Yeah, it's right!! Seriously, don't let anyone look down on us. I did it once ago. Everyone or anyone been in love and out of love. It's not that big of a deal.

We all known as human beings, the utmost living creature created by God in the image of Himself. We are the only living creature that has got the power to adapt, think and feel. So, we are the one who has the power to adapt, think and feel. Live for ourselves! We can build our own future and destroys our own future if we may. Claim back our independence right from this very second. Life is full of chances and opportunities, and it's up for she to learn to grab them.

"Falling in and out of love is part of growing up. It makes us stronger"