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男人男人 女人女人

女人嘛，最重要的是 ，就是多關心她一點。
男： 我要怎麼關心啊？那工作來說吧，她每次做的不開心，我都跟她說你別幹了！
女： 他要是真的與關心我，那就應該聽我訴苦，對吧？不能總是搪塞我“你別幹了！別幹了！”。


男人工作壓力大，看球賽。
男： 我們男人，工作壓力大不大？那每次有壓力的時候，我們看看球賽，紓解一下，怎麼啦？
女： 那兩隻眼睛就只知道盯著球賽。


女人對男人工作煩惱的意見與分析。
女： 他工作不順心的時候，我多關心他啊。我整晚給他分析，給他出主意。
男： 我最受不了的是什麽呢？我最受不了的就是，她老是拿自己的意見來指揮我。我覺得她根本不信任我的能力。


男人最要命的就是，得到了就不珍惜。
女： 一開始就假裝把你捧在手心裡。得到了，就開始敷衍你，把你說的毫無價值，可有可無。


男人最重要的是什麽？
面子。
女人最要命的是什麽？
就是老是想要改變男人。
男： 面子等於我們的尊嚴對不對


女人，不會主動要求，那一點都不浪漫。
所以啊，女人就喜歡用一些暗示，比喻，聽起來，曖昧不清，卻又似是而非的話來提示你。


女人，有時候真的不需要太精明。
偶爾裝傻一下，那會更可愛。

夏日樂悠悠 ♥

從前有個漁夫

愛上了一個女孩

但女孩總是把心藏在海底

漁夫怎麼樣都打撈不到

只好把自己變成一位廚師

他試著把女孩的心做成一道甜點

好讓他品嘗的時候 感覺到女孩的存在 ♥

A handsome Photographer of Mine!

Who's the guy behind the DSLR? He a handsome photographer of mine :P Lol! Do check out him out at elvin.lee.photography ;)

Hi Seoul 4 Charms Quiz Event

I'm trying my luck again via Hi Seoul 4 Charms Quiz Event to see whether I got chances to win the round trip flight ticket to Seoul City for two by attempting four of the quizzes there :P What're you waiting guys? You guys should try on your luck too, check it out at http://english.seoul.go.kr/lh/community/event_list.php! Good luck guys! XOXO! Wish me luck too! I'm hope I can "Eat . Play . Love . See . Sleep" in Korea once again with my loved one! It's fun!!

败也要败得很漂亮！

他们结婚三年，没有孩子，是大家公认的模范夫妻，脸红吵架都是没有的。她以为，所谓天长地久，不过如此。 那天，她无意发现他的一条手机短信：“昨晚分开后，我一直想你。你想我吗？”他正洗澡，哗哗的水声，都盖不过她的心跳声。她回了条短信：“今晚8点在街心公园见。” 七点半，她借故出门，素面朝天，黄色家居服，就是一个随处可见的家庭妇女。 在街心公园，只有一个20出头的女孩。长头发，高挑身材，稚气的一张脸，有点像张曼玉。她躲在大树背后，看着他的小情人左顾右盼地打完电话匆匆离去，她也转身回家。 那条路铺满了落叶，她能听到叶子在脚下破碎的声音，眼泪掉了下来。 那晚，她没有回家，去了一家咖啡馆，喝掉很多杯咖啡。想起高中时代和他的第一次牵手，想起10年后他的背叛，她可能喝“醉”了，恶心头昏，跑到洗手间，吐了个天翻地覆。 天微白时，她踉跄地往回走。打开门，他坐在沙发上打盹，听到她回来努力坐好。她说，从前既往不咎，如果再有一次，我们就离婚。说着，她把手里的钥匙朝他掷了过去. 之后半个月，他果然夜夜早归。那天中午，她去办事，顺路经过他的单位，想约他一起吃午饭，正好看见他下楼。他形色匆匆地闪进一家中餐厅，入了一间包厢，她立在大门口等。一个小时后，包厢门开了，他们并肩相拥而出。 她避进了大门旁边的蛋糕店，跑进角落，哭得眼睛都红了。看着橱窗里倒映的那个女人，肩膀抽搐，发髻散乱，完全是个失败者。蛋糕店的小女孩屈身，怯生生问：请问需要帮忙吗？她哽咽说不出话，摇摇头，又把头埋进膝盖，像只鸵鸟。 回到家，她用清水洗净泪痕，翻开本子，用漂亮的字体列一张新的生活计划表。不再为他朝九晚五地做饭。早上去“永和”吃油条豆浆，晚上炖个美味汤，每天苦练瑜伽。周末，她请小时工收拾家务，报了一个英语班，又学习水彩画。 他当然发现了她的变化，非常鼓励。他拥有了更多的自由，何乐不为？她隐忍不发。 同枕共勉，她几乎睡在床沿边上。有他的那一边身体都是僵硬的。想象他们在一起的细节，屈辱、伤心……但把眼泪，吞进肚子里。 这样过了半年，已经是春天了。 失败的婚姻会让大多数女人丑陋，却会让一种女人激发美。她的气色好了，水彩花卉画得十分出色，还能和英俊的外籍老师流利交流。她有点底气了。 28岁生日那天，她去商场挑了件薄呢银灰外套，剪了短发，漂亮地坐在家里等他回来，把离婚协议书递给他，提着箱子扬长而去。他猝不及防，目瞪口呆。 她什么都没多要，只带走了自己的日用品、衣服和一张20万的存折。价值百万的房子、车子，包括那个刚刚升任经理的男人，她都放弃了。她容忍不了不守承诺的男人。 当天，她跳槽到了另一家房地产策划公司，从最普通的员工开始。她想要一个新起点。她有足够的时间和动力来完成工作，出色的英语口语，优雅衣着，卓越能力，都为她加分。 29岁，她加薪升职，30岁就拥有了自己的策划公司。 她开始和一位追求自己的优秀男人约会。对方家道殷实，留学归来，欣赏独立自信的女人。他听说了她的前一段婚姻，郑重说：如果我不爱你了，会请你和我分手，决不隐瞒。当然，只要你永远这么可爱，我绝对忠诚。她笑：Me too! 他送给她的第一份礼物，是一张CD，来自爱尔兰的光头女歌手西尼德·奥康娜，素以特立独行闻名。她一听倾心。她从前是被庇护的，现在是被尊重的——这才是真正成熟的爱情吧。 谈婚论嫁之后，他们去一家知名首饰店挑戒指，居然碰到了她的前夫。他仍然和那个年轻女孩在一起，正为什么而争吵，女孩一气之下甩手而去，而他苦恼地抬起头时，碰上了她温和的眼神。他一阵刺痛，举止也局促起来。这简直就是电视剧里的桥段。她若无其事地微笑，为彼此作介绍。她的未婚夫向她的前夫伸出手去，真诚地说：“谢谢你，把这么好的女人让给我。”后者的脸，红透了。 在一段感情里败了，也可以败得很漂亮。 她很喜欢奥康娜唱的一首歌：《Thank you for hearing me》： "Thank you, thank you for helping me. Thank you for breaking my heart. Thank you for tearing me apart. Now I'm a strong, strong heart.." 人生路上风大浪急，总有伤害潜伏如猛兽窥伺，总有机会让你蹲在角落，在“橱窗”里反观自己痛哭流涕。但你不是一只鸵鸟，你可以像奥康娜一样，谢谢对方的伤害，让你练就一颗坚不可摧的心灵，看到另一番风光。 女人可以输掉一个男人，但决不能输掉自己。 还有，要谢谢那些伤害过你的人，因为他们让你更坚强。 输了这次，可能下一次才是你的最终。

Bill Gates' 11 Rules

I received an email on Bill Gates' 11 Rules, and thought of sharing it here: Bill Gates recently gave a speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world. Rule 1: Life is not fair - get used to it! Rule 2: The world doesn't care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself. Rule 3: You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won't be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both. Rule 4: If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss. Rule 5: Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity. Rule 6: If you mess up, it's not your parents' fault, so don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them. Rule 7: Before you were born, your parents weren't as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent's generation, try delousing the closet in your own room. Rule 8: Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they'll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn't bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life. Rule 9: Life is not divided into semesters. You don't get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time. Rule 10: Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs. Rule 11: Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one.

女人心目中的好男人。。。

收到同事的一份转邮。。 还蛮有趣的。。 心目中的好男人（22 歲時第一次寫） 1.帥 2.迷人 3.有錢 4.忠實的聽眾 5.風趣 6.體力好 7.衣著合宜 8.品味高雅 9.時時讓我驚喜 10.狂野浪漫的好情人 心目中的好男人（32 歲時改寫） 1.五官端正－最好還有頭髮 2.會幫我開車門，拉座椅 3.肯花錢帶我上館子吃頓好的 4.聽的比說的多 5.聽我講笑話，該笑時會笑 6.肯幫我提菜籃 7.好歹有條領帶 8.喜歡吃我煮的菜 9.不會忘了生日及週年紀念日 10.一週至少溫存一番 心目中的好男人（42 歲時改寫） 1.還像個人－禿子也無妨 2.等我上了車才開車 3.工作穩定－偶爾在麥當勞請吃大餐 4.還肯聽我說話 5.聽得懂笑話 6.搬得動傢俱 7.會找遮得住 "小" 腹的襯衫穿 8.不會笨到去買需要開瓶器的香檳 9.上完廁所能把馬桶蓋歸位 10.每週刮鬍 心目中的好男人（52 歲時改寫） 1.偶爾剪個鼻毛及耳毛 2.不在公開場合打嗝或挖鼻孔 3. 謊話少說點 4.我興緻來的時候，不會呼呼大睡 5.一樣的笑話不講 N 次 6.週末還肯離開沙發 7.會穿成對的襪子及乾淨的內衣褲 8.肯吃電視快餐 9.多少記得別人的名字 10.偶爾刮個鬍子 心目中的好男人 (62 歲時改寫） 1.不會嚇壞小朋友 2.還記得浴室在哪 3.大病沒有 4.醒的時候鼾聲不大（睡的時候可以大聲些） 5.還記得為發笑 6.還站得起來 7.不會光著身子亂跑 8.肯吃軟食 9.還記得假牙在哪 10.還記得。。。 心目中的好男人（72歲那年改寫） 1.活著就好 2.活著就好 3.活著就好 4.活著就好 5.活著就好 6.活著就好 7.活著就好 8.活著就好 9.活著就好 10.只要活著就好，一切都無所謂。。。

Hold my hand..

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don’t fall into the river." The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What’s the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.. "There’s a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go." Conclusion, in any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...

偶尔。。。

偶尔很无聊。。。 偶尔很清醒。。。 偶尔却抗拒。。。 偶尔有睡意。。。 偶尔很伤心。。。 偶尔很开心。。。 偶尔有梦想。。。 偶尔有梦境。。。 偶尔。。。

Sex Education In German

Found these from one of the forward mails, thought of it might be interesting to share with you guys =P

Forgive or not to Forgive?

Just went through the video recording of yesterday morning press conference of a famous movie director in Singapore, Jack Neo and his wife, regards "Jack Neo's Affair Scandal". There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love. His wife definitely is the greatest wife in the world as she face it with him and forgive him for hurting her. You can't undo anything you've already done, but you can face it up. You can tell the truth. You can seek forgiveness. And let God do the rest.. All the guys out there, I hope all of you could appreciate the one who loved you with her heart, don't ever break your loved one's heart like Jack Neo did ;)

Happy Women's Day!

Good evening! A very happy Women's Day (8 March) to all of you! Women's Day - a global day celebrating the economic, political and social achievements of women past, present and future. Why just women? Why not all? This is because women have willed themselves to stand behind (despite their own accomplishments) and look after their families! This is because women have chosen to put everything else aside and let their children take prominence in their lives and hearts! In some places like China, Russia, Vietnam and Bulgaria, etc, Women's Day is a national holiday, but not Malaysia? Why? Why? Why..? Anyhow, how good if all the women around the world can have a day off today while all men around the world have to work on today =P

Science and Mathematics in English

Frankly speaking, I'm very very sadden with the changes of Science and Mathematics which proposed to teach in English back to Bahasa Malaysia again by our current government.

As for me, I took BA (Hons) Accountancy and Finance after my secondary school. Guess what? Some of the basic subjects we have actually already learnt them in Bahasa Malaysia during our secondary school, and it in English once we entered College or University, and we study it again, don't you think it is very funny and time consuming? Moreover, our brain has actually assimilated the Bahasa Malaysia, and we might need some times to get use with English starting from zero again. Not even now, I can't really speak a fluent English, I guess many of them out there are having the same problem as me too, especially those graduate from a so called "Kebangsaan" seconday School, what's a shame right? My personal opinion is English teaching for Science and Mathematics would be a brilliant idea to make our next generation to be more successful, intelligent, and able to compete with outbounds. Anyhow, Bahasa Malaysia is still a very important subject in our country as if we fail it, we will never get any certificate, so I guess teaching of Science and Mathematics in English still does not affect Bahasa Malaysia at all. Am I right to say so? Anyway, I wonder why not just make the schools in certain vicinity to teach these subjects in English and some in Bahasa Malaysia? Then, we, the rakyat, will be the one decide on what language to be taught for!

Six Millionaire Traits that We Can Adopt

Millionaires have more in common with each other than just their bank accounts - for some millionaires, striking it rich took courage, salesmanship, vision and passion. Find out which traits are most common to the seven-figure bank account set, and what you can do to hone some of these skills in your own life.

1. Independent Thinking Millionaires think differently. Not just about money, about everything. The time and energy everybody else spends attempting to conform, millionaires spend creating their own path. Since thoughts impact actions, people who want to be wealthy should think in a way that will get them to that goal. Just look at David Geffen. A self-made millionaire with $4.5 billion to his name in 2009, this American record executive and film producer was college dropout, but made millions founding record agencies and signed some of the most prominent musicians of the 1970s and '80s. Although he didn't take what many assume to be the usual path to success, his tireless work ethic and sense of personal conviction about artists' potential allowed him to rack up a sizable fortune. 2. Vision Millionaires are creative visionaries with a positive attitude. In other words, wealthy people not only have big dreams, they also believe they will come true. As such, wealth seekers should set lofty goals and not be afraid of uncharted territories. Bill Gates, the world's richest person in 2009, did just that. The American chairman of Microsoft (NYSE:MSFT) is one of the founding entrepreneurs who brought personal computers to the masses. Gates jumped into the personal computers business in 1975 and held on tight, creating Microsoft Windows in 1985. When consumers began to bring computers into their homes, Gates was ready to profit from this new age. 3. Skills Writer Dennis Kimbro interviewed successful people to determine the traits they had in common for his book, "Think and Grow Rich" (1992). He found that they concentrated on their area of excellence. Millionaires also tend to partner with others to supplement their weaker skills. If you don't know what you are good at, poll friends and family. Use training and mentors to refine your strong skills. 4. Passion Billionaire investing guru Warren Buffett says "Money is a by-product of something I like to do very much." Enjoying your work allows you to have the discipline to work hard at it every day. People who interact with money for a living, bankers for example, often love creating new deals and persuading others to complete a transaction. But finding your dream job may take time. The average millionaire doesn't find it until age 45, and tends to be 54 (on average) before becoming a millionaire. 5. Investment Millionaires are willing to sacrifice time and money to achieve their goals. They are willing to take a risk now for the opportunity of achieving something greater in the future. Investing may include securities or starting a business - either way, it is a step toward achieving great financial rewards. Start investing now. 6. Salesmanship Millionaires are constantly presenting their ideas and persuading others to buy into them. Good salesmen are oblivious to critics and naysayers. In other words, they don't take "no" for an answer. Millionaires also have good social skills. In fact, when writer T. Harv Eker analyzed the results of a survey of 753 millionaires for his book, "Secrets of the Millionaire Mind" (2005), he found social skills were more important than IQ. Just look at Donald Trump. His fortune has fluctuated over the years, but his ability to sell himself - whether as a TV personality or as the force behind a line of neckties - has always brought him back among the ranks of celebrity millionaires. * The above article credited to investopedia.com *

Fluent English Speaker!

I know I can't really speak fluent English, yet don't laugh at me, I'm trying my best to improve my oral communication skills in English now, and targeted to be a fluent English speaker in one to two years time =P Well! All of us know that when children start learn to talk, they actually learn by subconsciously copying the adults. So, when they do start trying the words out, their language and accent would be similar to that of the adults around them. So, similarly, if anyone of us want to become fluent in English, it would be a good idea to listen to it as much as possible. Watch English movies and soaps, listen to English music or even buy a CD of novels read out in English that we could listen to. The more we listen to the language, more comfortable you become with it. Subconsciously, our brain begins to assimilate this language so that when we use it, we would be more likely to use it correctly with only a little accent. But, listening alone would not take us all the way. We have to practice too. Start reading out English stories and news aloud. Find a friend who would also like to improve his/her English and practice together. When we watch a movie, how about re-enacting a scene from it for friends or family or do this in front of the mirror. Conclusion, listen and speak more!

Think Rich to Become Rich

T. Harv Eker, the multimultimillionaire (this is how he describes himself), he taught us to think rich to become rich in his book "Secrets of the Millionaire Mind".

Some of the wealth principles that support his idea taken in his exact words are:

Your income can grow only to the extent you do.

If you want to change the fruits, you will first have to change the roots. If you want to change the visible, you must first change the invisible.

Money is a result; your weight is a result. We live in a world of cause and effect.

When the subconscious mind must choose between deeply rooted emotions and logic, emotions will almost always win.

If your motivation for acquiring money or success comes from a none supportive root such as fear, anger, or the need to "prove" yourself, your money will never bring you happiness.

You can choose to think in ways that will support you in your happiness and success instead of ways that don’t.

Rich people believe “I create my life.” Poor people believe “Life happens to me.”

Money is extremely important in the areas in which it works, and extremely unimportant in the areas in which it doesn’t.

When you are complaining, you become a living, breathing ‘crap magnet’.

There is no such thing as a really rich victim!

Rich people play the money game to win. Poor people play the money game not to lose.

There’s nothing wrong with getting a steady paycheck, unless it interferes with your ability to earn what you’re worth. There’s the rub. It usually does.

Financial Genius

You don’t have to be a genius to be wealthy. Although high IQ definitely helps, it is more important to have emotional intelligence in order to get rich. Well! All of us learn the simple arithmetic in primary schools. For example, you certainly know “8 = 10-2”. There is really no challenging mathematics involved in personal finance. Simple plus and minus equation is all you need. The two most essential equations in personal finance are: S = I – E Where S = Savings, I = Income, E = Expenses and NW = A – L Where NW = Net Worth, A = Assets, L = Liabilities In the quest of acquiring wealth, one must have a positive S all the time. Only through smart utilization of your savings can ensure that your net worth will increase over time. The above philosophy credited to the book "Top Money Tips For Malaysians"

Let's Help End World Hunger

Ten million people die every year of hunger and hunger-related diseases. Only eight percent are the victims of high-profile earthquakes, floods, droughts and wars. The rest are often forgotten. Who are they? They are hungry people in developing countries who don't make the headlines and most of us probably won't know that they are 820 million in total, more than the combined populations of the United States, Canada and the European Union.

What if you knowing that each word you get right through a vocabulary game could help feed 820 million hungry people around the world, will you get a right word for them?

Well, at FreeRice, each word you get right, you have already donated 10 grains of rice through the United Nations to help all the end world hunger. I did. I have already donated 5470 grains of rice, and I will keep donate more, what's about you?

Whether you are CEO of a large corporation or a street child in a poor country, improving your vocabulary can improve your life. It is a great investment in yourself. Perhaps even greater is your donated rice makes in hungry human beings, enabling them to function and be productive. It's even precious when you knowing that somewhere in the world, a person is eating rice that you helped provide.

For your information, the rice is paid for by the advertisers whose names you see on the bottom of your vocabulary screen. Through their advertising at FreeRice, these companies support both learning and reducing hunger. Thank to them and FreeRice.

So, what are you waiting now? Let's play the vocabulary game at FreeRice and feed a hungry person.

Falling In and Out of Love

Here comes the story! Guy and girl gets together. They love each other. Let's say the guy is a jerk, the guy decided to call it quits one day and girl gets heartbroken badly. Cried for countless nights and still couldn't get over with it. None of the remedy she tried could help herself.

Yes, it's love! The mumbo jumbo feeling and stuff and it's making a big hole in people's heart. He came into her life and leave with a big hole in her heart. There will be a hole, but what she can do is she just have to learn to deal with it.

Patch things up and go on with life. Think about the days she was single and she lived her life happily without even needing the other half. Why? How? The days are still there but it's she the one who want to think that it's the end of the world.

Yeah, she know it hurts but she will get over it one day very soon. People said, time will heal all your hole. Is it truth? Maybe it is or maybe not. Anywhere, if she still complaining then it's just a habit to be with the other half. How about getting use to another situation for a change.

Yeah, it's right!! Seriously, don't let anyone look down on us. I did it once ago. Everyone or anyone been in love and out of love. It's not that big of a deal.

We all known as human beings, the utmost living creature created by God in the image of Himself. We are the only living creature that has got the power to adapt, think and feel. So, we are the one who has the power to adapt, think and feel. Live for ourselves! We can build our own future and destroys our own future if we may. Claim back our independence right from this very second. Life is full of chances and opportunities, and it's up for she to learn to grab them.

"Falling in and out of love is part of growing up. It makes us stronger"